On bringing up children

Something I’ve struggled with is what my idea of fair is in this life.

“Look at what this guy is doing, look at her, look at all of the things that these people are doing! God, they are awful people (in my eyes) why do the desires of their heart come so easily; why do you not punish them Lord?”

And in the same sense, “Lord, yes, I sinned, but it was minor, why do I feel punished to this degree?”

I struggled with this for a long time, somehow trying to justify that “well, my sin wasn’t so bad, I really don’t deserve this...” I struggled for a long time wondering why it felt like I couldn’t get away with even the smallest of offenses. “Lord, why are you so strict on me?”

It turns out if I’d been reading the bible closely, I would’ve clearly seen the reason

Hebrews 12:6 (ESV): For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and chastises every son whom He receives.”

So, I spent all this time upset at my “special treatment” which I had grown frustrated with, feeling like a child would with a strict parent, when, it turns out, that I was looking at it all completely wrong.

We’re chastised because we’re loved, we’ve been chosen and received. For this we should be glad, for this, we should give glory to God.

This will sound stupid, but God’s “punishment” or correction to me has helped to further strengthen my faith. There is a loving God, who like a caring mother or father wants only the best for their children. When He sees me doing something that is harmful to me, He will discipline me. When he sees me doing something to harm another, He will discipline me. When he sees me about to do something stupid, He will correct me and discipline me.

My frustration has turned to love and understanding.

He expects more of those that are His received and loved children. He expects more of me.

God isn’t “hard” on me, He isn’t a strict overbearing parent, He is a loving and awesome Father who wants His child to seek His way, the true and perfect way.

So, the next time you feel that God has been harsh on you, realize that it’s not a hateful God punishing you, it’s an amazing Father pouring our His lovingkindness upon you.

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